Bereavement Services

Care for the Grieving

Our mission is to facilitate and support healthy grieving for patients, families, and significant others before, during, and after death, and to educate and support the staff who provide their care.

"The way we deal with loss shapes our capacity to be present to life more than anything else. The way we protect ourselves from loss may be the way in which we distance ourselves from life. We burn out not because we don't care but because we don't grieve."
-- Rachel Naomi, Remen Kitchen Table Wisdom

We provide a clearing house for information, resources, and support regarding grief, loss, dying, and death. Support is available in a variety of ways for patients, families, and staff through the services listed below. Contact us at


Service of Remembrance. This event, originally scheduled for October 25, has been cancelled.

Staff memorial service. A time for community, prayer, reflection, music, grief & hope, and space to remember Duke employees who have died.  This memorial event is held in the spring and fall.  Call 919-684-4750 for more information.

Pediatric Day of Remembrance. E-mail for more information.

Grief Awareness Week. The purpose of the activities, event, and displays during this week is to increase awareness of issues pertaining to grief and loss in the workplace and promote strategies for the healthy grieving and self-care of staff at DUMC and Duke University Hospital. Learn more about the 2020 Grief Awareness Week, which will be November 16 – 20, 2020.

Bereavement Advisory Council

The Bereavement Advisory Council (BAC) is a multidisciplinary committee that works closely with the Bereavement Services Program to develop and sponsor programs for patients, families, and staff in areas of grief, loss, death, and dying. We recruit new members in the fall. New BAC members start in January and serve two-year terms. Call 919-684-4750 for more information. Download an application (PDF, 30 KB).

End-of-life Care Programs

The following programs offer an overview of local, state, and national news, legislation, events, calendars, newsletters, resources, and initiatives.

Grief Counseling, Support and Resources


Staff is available to develop, facilitate, or present training or support opportunities regarding dying, death, loss, and grief.

Grief Materials

Grief is a natural reaction to loss, and each person grieves in their own unique way. The following grief materials can help you understand the grief process, and support your journey towards healing.




  • A Father's Grief - English (PDF, 87 KB) / Spanish (PDF, 110 KB)
  • Healing Together as a Couple - English (PDF, 27 KB) / Spanish (PDF, 27 KB)
  • Helping Yourself After the Loss of a Baby - English (PDF, 84 KB) / Spanish (PDF, 34 KB)
  • How Family and Friends Can Help - English (PDF, 55 KB) / Spanish (PDF, 25 KB)
  • Understanding Grief and Mourning - English (PDF, 89KB) / Spanish (PDF, 27 KB)

Traumatic loss

Additional grief-related information